My perpetrator reported me as I posted in my instagram about him
refer to this link for ruining his reputation. I was advised that there will be a letter to be sendto me to settle the issue and will have mediation between me and him. When I heard about it, I feel angry, I cried, I cursed him, I felt the world is so unfair. I was the one victimised and now I tell what truly he is, it was like..”you did it all and you being slapped with that truth why you can’t accept that, you’re like that. It tells and define about who you are, accept it!”
The fact that you did it, it’s fair to say you are ruining your own reputation not any of your victim.
It triggered me, the time when I felt and thought that I am healed, moved on, forgave, I’m totally ok then you felt being pulled back to feel where it all started.
Let’s get back to invitation for mediation, I refused it because I know I would be emotionally chaotic to see my perpetrator in front of me. I agree to take it down from my instagram page for the sake of my continuous emotional healing.
